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Judith Barnett, Ph.D, Clinical Psychologist, Marriage Counselor & Infidelity Specialist in Chapel Hill, NC
20 Years Experience
Certified Imago Relationship Therapist &
Marriage Counselor
Services Available:
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Focusing on such skills as constructive couples dialogue, anger/rage containment and positive anger expression, re-romanticizing, and passion enhancement.
Recommended Books...
Bercht, Anne, (2004). My Husband’s Affair Became the BEST Thing That Ever Happened to Me. Victoria, BC, Canada: Trafford Publishing.
Brown, Emily M., (1999). Affairs: A Guide to Working Through the Repercussions of Infidelity. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.
Brown, Emily M., (2001) Patterns of Infidelity and Their Treatment, (Second Edition). New York: Brunner/Routledge.
Carnes, P. (1991). Don’t Call It Love. Minneapolis, MN: CompCare Publishers.
Carnes, Patrick. Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction. Minneapolis: CompCare, 1983.
Carnes, Patrick. The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, 1997.
Cassella, Lynn, Making Your Way After Your Parents’ Divorce, 2002.DeAngelis, Barbara. (1992). Are You the One For Me? New York: Bantam.
Doherty, William. Take Back Your Marriage. New York: Guilford Press, 2001.
Fisher, Bruce , Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends, 9th edition, 1998.Fisher, Helen, (1992). Anatomy of Love: The Natural History of Monogamy, Adultery and Divorce. New York: Norton.
Fisher, Roger, Getting to Yes: How to Negotiate Agreement Without Giving In, 2nd edition, 2003.
Ford, Debbie Spiritual Divorce, 2001.Forward, Susan. When Your Lover is a Liar. New York: HarperCollins, 1999.
Glass, Shirley P. And Jean C. Staeheli (2003). Not ”Just Friends”. New York: The Free Press.
Gordon, Lori. Passage to Intimacy. New York: Fireside, 2000.Gottman, John M. with Silver, Nan. Why Marriages Succeed or Fail... and How You Can Make Yours Last. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1994.
Gottman, John M. & Silver, Nan. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York: Crown, 2000.
Gottman, John. and Joan DeClaire. (2001). The Relationship Cure. New York: Crown.
Gray, John. Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. New York: HarperCollins, 1995.
Hendrix, Harville. Getting the Love You Want. New York: Harper & Row, 1990.
Harley, Willard Jr., Fall in Love Stay in Love, 2001.Lerner, Harriet Goldhor (1993). The Dance of Deception. New York: HarperCollins.
Leman, Dr. Kevin Sex Begins in the Kitchen, 2000.Levine, Janice & Markman, Howard, Eds. Why Do Fools Fall in Love? Experiencing the Magic, Mystery, and Meaning of Successful Relationships. New York: John Wiley & Sons, 2000.
Love, Pat. The Truth about Love: The Highs, the Lows, and How You Can Make It Last Forever. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2001.
Love, Pat with Robinson, Jo. Emotional Incest: What To Do When a Parent's Love Rules Your Life. New York: Bantam, 1991.
Love, Pat & Robinson, Jo. Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking. New York: Plume/Penguin, 1995.Lusterman, Don-David. Infidelity: A Survival Guide. Oakland, CA.: New Harbinger Publications,1998.
Maheu, Marlene M. & Subotnik, Rona B. Infidelity on the Internet: Virtual Relationships and Real Betrayal. Naperville, IL.: Sourcebooks, Inc., 2001.
Mercer, Diana & Pruett, Marsha Kline. Your Divorce Advisor: A Lawyer and a Psychologist Guide You Through the Legal and Emotional Landscape of Divorce. New York: Fireside, 2001.
Neuman, M. Gary. Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way. New York: Random House, 1999.
Newell, Elaine, When Your Long-Term Marriage Ends: A Workbook for Divorced Women, 1994.Pema, Chodron, When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times, 2000.
Pines, Ayala Malach. Falling in Love: Why We Choose the Lovers We Choose. New York: Routledge, 1999.
Pittman, Frank. Private Lies: Infidelity and Betrayal of Intimacy. New York: W.W. Norton & Company, 1989.
Raffel, Lee, Should I Stay or Go? How Controlled Separation Can Save Your Marriage, 1997.Ricci, Isolina. Mom's House, Dad's House: A Complete Guide for Parents Who Are Separated, Divorced, or Remarried. New York: Simon & Schuster Trade Paperbacks, 1997.
Schneider, Jennifer P. Back from betrayal: A ground-breaking guide to recovery for women involved with sex-addicted men. New York: Ballantine Books, 1988.Schneider, Jennifer P. & Schneider, Burt. Sex, lies, and forgiveness: Couples speaking on healing from sex addiction. Tucson, AZ.: Recovery Resources Press, 1999.
Schneider, Jennifer & Weiss, Robert. Cybersex Exposed: Simple Fantasy or Obsession? Center City, Minn.: Hazelden. 2001.
Smedes, Lewis B. (1996). The Art of Forgiving. New York: Ballantine Books.
Spring, Janis Abrahms. (1996). After the Affair. New York: HarperCollins.
Spring, Janis Abrahms & Spring, Michael. After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful. New York: HarperCollins, 1997.
Subotnik, Rona & Harris, Gloria. Surviving infidelity: Making decisions, recovering from the pain. Holbrook, MA: Bob Adams Press, 1999.
Sugarbaker, Geneva, Nice Women Get Divorced: The Conflicts & Challenges for Traditional Women, 1992.
Taylor, Maurice and McCee, Seana, The New Couple – Why the Old Rules Don’t Work and What Does, 2000.Vaughan, Peggy (2003). The Monogamy Myth, Third Edition. New York: Newmarket Press.
Vaughan, Peggy. The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs. New York: Newmarket Press, 1998.
Vaughan, Peggy, The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Dealing with Affairs, 2003.
Wallerstein, Judith S., Blakeslee, Sandra, & Lewis, Julia M. Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: The 25 Year Landmark Study. New York: Hyperion, 2001.Weiner-Davis Michelle. The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2001.
Whitehead, Barbara Dafoe, The Divorce Culture, 1997.
There is more information available on this topic, if you still have questions not answered by this section please call me. I'm usually available within 24-48 hrs to answer questions, schedule phone coaching sessions or office coaching/therapy sessions, or direct you to other resources.
Remember: Research / statistics on infidelity indicates that receiving counseling after the discovery of an affair is the single best predictor of recovery.
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